Tuesday, December 30, 2025

The Ones I Could Tell Anything/ Mists of Self

 

The Ones I Could Tell Anything

Mists of Self

By Nina Rubinstein Alonso

Ibbetson Street Press

Somerville MA

ISBM: 978-1-257-74906-5

44 Pages

Review by Dennis Daly

Poetry usually works best when the poet objectifies the personal on a mindful scale between self-evaluation and mythic individuality. Nina Rubinstein Alonzo does exactly that in her latest collection The Ones I Could Tell Anything, subtitled Mists of Self.

Styled mostly in crisp, neatly packed pods sans punctuation, Alonzo’s confessional pieces in Part 1 intimate external human connections beyond pedestrian attention and in Part 2, using inspired depictions, her very different, surreal pieces often wax mythical with internal and latent symbolism. These same images rub up against each other wonderfully, fusing dry narratives with her seemingly subconscious visions.

The opening poem, The Ones I Could Tell Anything, doubling as Alonzo’s title poem of both book and the first of two sections, details the pain of absence and her concomitant loss of self-knowledge and identity. She sums up her precarious state, introducing her subsequent pods this way,

… things matter less

than they used to

but I miss

the ones

I could tell

anything despite

death and distance

canceling

our meetings.

Companionship spans the divide between life and death in Alonzo’s piece entitled Flying Solo. Her husband was a giver (think few), not a taker (think many). This poem is a paean to his ever-present spirit in her life. The poet cites an example of that spirit here,

Fernando jumps

out of bed

without complaint

rushes to the rescue

gives without being asked

no explanation required

no receipt

no need for apology when I think

of the men

I’ve known

no one comes close

I miss him

speak to his spirit

feel him near

tell him

I’m doing

what I can

In her poem, Heather, college age Alonso seeks, as many students do, an alternate self. At that age the game is mimesis. They seek the talented, the artful, the sophisticated, and mirror them until they find their singular worth. Alonzo’s persona joins the poetic fray,

Tall exotic artsy with

silken ribbon hair

nothing like my curly mop

her elegant way

of enunciating phrases

can’t afford the dorm

so beg mom to let me

move into Heather’s

spare room

mom squints at the

Cambridge flat

wonders why I want

such a place

but it’s time

Heart’s Light, Alonzo’s final poem in Part 1, shines with its fundamental beat of humanity’s mystery. She sees her former confidant in a watery vision, not unlike King Arthur’s Lady of the Lake. Consider this lovely piece in its totality,

I find and lose myself

in these dear ones

glance in the pool

and see them

lifting water-lilies

loke candles to show me

undersea flowers

no matter some are living

some are dead all

radiate heart light.

A life of anticipation, a threatening end from somewhere out at sea, arrives in the poet’s harbor with dramatic stagecraft in Alonzo’s poem entitled Banner in Part 11. No quarter is offered by this strange ship as it approaches out human dream-time. A pirate’s black spot in the center of its battle flag seals the deal. The poet’s mnemonic intentions cry out in these emblematic lines,

the flag she saw as a child

through memory shifts and revises

every ominous gesture

tower of silver on a red field

and in the center a black spot

In Scissors, one of Alonzo’s funereal and mythical poems, she portrays the Fate (or Sister of the Night) Atropos as cutting the threads of life. The narrative concludes with an old Everyman (gulp) checking out,

… one snip

cuts the thread of time

and at his polished table

the old man suddenly

clutches and falls hard

spilling his cup of black wine

Alonzo’s poem Mourners details in a surreal way the rituals of death. There are no surprises here. Everything was foreseen. Life ends routinely with the finery and celebratory color added afterwards. In this way the young are introduced to the most common of all contexts. Consider these moments of cultish preparation,

They unroll soft rugs

everything gray and black

as are planned

the menu ashen pale

eggs roasted in the fire

wine like delicate urine

the ranks of mourners

lighting torches and lamps

at the corners of the stairs

Set as the penultimate piece in her book, Alonzo’s poem Sword mitigates, in part, the surreal darkness and death pervading the collection’s Part II. Piercing the metaphysical mist, the poet constructs a battlefield weapon worthy of humanity’s conclusion. Both implement of execution and mercifully keen opiate, its sharp-edged steel promises a speedy transition out of this brutish world. Alonso puts it this way,

fire-forged hand-beaten

bathed in the well of minerals

let down for a minute only

star-sheath sword girded

with rings of shining metal

the maker calls it prostitute

and says it will bleed so many

yet death will be light

and swift sparkling

like a snow river.

Part 1 of this collection with its neo-confessional pieces and Part 11 with its mythical and surreal poems are very different. But Alonzo’s combination does make sense and brings with it an unusual logic. Part 1 portrays the relationships whereby she finds her voice. Then Part 2 showcases that objectifying voice. This strikes me as original. And that is quite an achievement.

Saturday, December 27, 2025

Red Letter Flashback Friday

 

 

 The Red Letters

 

 

In ancient Rome, feast days were indicated on the calendar by red letters.

To my mind, all poetry and art serves as a reminder that every day we wake together beneath the sun is a red-letter day.

 

––Steven Ratiner

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Dear Readers,

 

I planned on using the time around the mid-winter holidays to slow down a bit––especially after a rather hectic month or two.  So I hunted for some of my favorite holiday installments, and will offer my little poetry collage this week; and, next Friday, a wonderful poem from Richard Blanco for the turning of the New Year.  Sadly, the hopefulness within today’s installment has dimmed considerably amid more recent headlines.  But the words of the 13th-century French soldier are both haunting and inspiring.  If such simple pleasures are what every human craves, how can we not find some way that allows all of us to enjoy them?

 

Wishing you a happy holiday season,

Steven

 

 

 

 

 

Red Letter Flashback Friday

 

 

 

A Quilted Red Letter for the Mid-winter Holidays

 

 

“Quand je lou tans refroidier/ voi et geleir/ et les arbres despoillier/ et iverneir…”–– writes this anonymous French poet/soldier in “On the Approach of Winter”.  He was returning from the decades-long wars in the south of his country at the start of the 13th century.  “When I see the weather/ turning cold/ and starting to freeze/ and the trees going bare/ and winter coming…”. sings the poet in this surprisingly modern translation.  He is left feeling much the way many of us are these days––“then I want to ease up/ and spend time/ with a good fire beside the brazier,/ and a glass of claret/ in a warm house.”  This is not only because the land is in the grip of the cold but because our hearts are tormented by the ubiquitous and most certainly needless bloodshed that abounds.  I wish I was prepared to offer some wisdom right now concerning the appalling brutality taking place in the Middle East, but likely I am feeling as horrified and helpless as you.  Recently, though, I’ve been remembering how my sister Elaine, a fine quiltmaker, could take remnants of disparate materials and somehow make a grander vision emerge from their conjoining.  I’d like to offer a patchwork of some poems that have been circulating in my mind these days and see what they feel like, taken together.

 

Beside the French verse, I’ll stitch something from my favorite Israeli poet, Yehuda Amichai.  He was a decorated soldier during World War II and the campaign that’s known as the 1948 ‘War for Independence’ (though that title is certainly dependent on which designation is on your identity papers.) Returning, he went back to school and became an educator and an exceptional poet, one of the first writing in colloquial Hebrew.  He became one of that country’s most celebrated authors––but then his radical transformation into a peace activist, whose poems make the case for understanding and reconciliation between the Israeli and Palestinian peoples, made him equally controversial.  Here is a simple piece from him that I love:

 

An Arab Shepherd is Searching for His Goat on Mount Zion

by Yehuda Amichai

 

An Arab shepherd is searching for his goat on Mount Zion and,

on the opposite mountain, I am searching for my little boy.

An Arab shepherd and a Jewish father

both trapped within their momentary failure.

Our voices meet above the Sultan's Pool

in the valley between us.  Neither of us wants

the child or the goat to get chewed up in the gears

of the terrible Had Gadya machine.

 

Afterward we found them among the bushes

and our voices re-entered our bodies, laughing and crying.

 

Searching for a goat or a son––

it’s always been the beginning

of a new religion in these mountains.

 

Protecting those we most dearly love: assuredly, this amounts to the most sacred oath for either parent or shepherd––and few responsibilities will ever feel more consequential.  How can we not cry out to the encompassing powers of the universe at such a moment, pleading for help, and keenly aware of our own limitations?

 

And dovetailing with Amichai, I’ll sew in this poem from Mahmoud Darwish, generally regarded as Palestine’s national poet.  Again, I’ve chosen a simple lyric but one with tremendous resonance, especially now.  He, too, is a poet whose resume overflows with honors, but I’ll highlight just one: he was the author of the Palestinian Declaration of Independence which formally brought that state into being.

 

I Come From There

     by Mahmoud Darwish

 

I come from there and I have memories
Born as mortals are, I have a mother
And a house with many windows,
I have brothers, friends,
And a prison cell with a cold window.
Mine is the wave, snatched by sea-gulls,
I have my own view,
And an extra blade of grass.
Mine is the moon at the far edge of the words,
And the bounty of birds,
And the immortal olive tree.
I walked this land before the swords
Turned its living body into a laden table.
I come from there. I render the sky unto her mother
When the sky weeps for her mother.
And I weep to make myself known
To a returning cloud.
I learnt all the words worthy of the court of blood
So that I could break the rule.
I learnt all the words and broke them up
To make a single word: Homeland...

 

Two poets from the Abrahamic tradition––whose lineage, according to the Old Testament and the Koran, is inextricably intertwined (as are their futures.)  And each attempted during their lifetimes to create lyrics that would imagine what peace might look like for their peoples––even as their two governments continued to wage endless war.

 

The French poet quoted at the start of this Letter fought in what came to be known as the “Albigensian crusade.”  Backed by hardline Cistercians, Pope Innocent III offered lands to northern rulers who would attack those aristocrats in places like Albi, Toulouse, Caracasonne, considered too lax in their ‘tolerance of heretics’ (read: Muslims and Jews.)  The poet goes on to say: “I don’t want to ride out/ and burn places down,/ and so I really hate going to war/ and the battle cries/ and piling up great pillage/ and robbing people;/ it’s a crazy enough business/ to waste everything;/ for little gain/ the masters in charge counseled with lies/ start wars and disputes.”  Sound familiar?  The French poet dreams of spending time before a warm fire, sipping in comfort, and relishing the simple pleasure of peace.  As do the Israelis and the Palestinians––as do we all.  And yet someone in power always seems to know the perfect lever to pull in order to threaten our children, our goats, our homeland––to convince us that taking up arms and attacking our enemies will ultimately grant us what we most desire…even though all that’s ever been delivered is more bloodshed, more suffering.  Today, I’m allowing these songs to play inside my mind, finding connections I hadn’t made before.  I’m offering them to your attention as well.  May some wisdom, somewhere, arise from these ashes.

 

 

 

The Red Letters

 

* If you would like to receive these poems every Friday in your own in-box – or would like to write in with comments or submissions – send correspondence to:

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To learn more about the origins of the Red Letter Project, check out an essay I wrote for Arrowsmith Magazine:

https://www.arrowsmithpress.com/community-of-voices

 

and the Boston Area Small Press and Poetry Scene

http://dougholder.blogspot.com

 

For updates and announcements about Red Letter projects and poetry readings, please follow me on BlueSky

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and on Twitter          

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And coming soon:

a new website to house all the Red Letter archives at StevenRatiner.com